Configure Discourse with reasonable communications preferences

Before I share stuff here I need to ensure the email is configured as I need: opt-in. I will provide direction for being notified, but when someone joins the site to communicate with me they should only receive email if they are being responded to; no digests or scheduled messages, and no personal messages; these remain options available, but all need to be turned on.

Specifically, this is preventing me from obtaining a lamp. :laughing:

Noting here, since everything is connected… especially my neurosis. :crazy_face: